I’ve been seeing more and more videos of people younger than me doing self imposed challenges where they don’t use social media for X amount of time, or limit their media consumption to just a few things for a month, or spending a year tackling their backlog of movies/videogames/etc. And it’s interesting seeing people live in the way a lot of people HAD to in the 90s and earlier. I was just thinking recently about how I have more, and more easy access, to videogames than when I was in say 8th grade, where unless you borrowed a game from someone or rented it, you just had the games you had to play, and nothing else. Same with CDs: I remember when I finally owned more CDs than my 15 disc CD wallet could hold, and how it felt like I had SO MUCH music, whereas now I can open Spotify and have access to thousands upon thousands of albums and songs.
At the same time, I see comments on social media about how
people miss videostores and that whole experience. Of course they forget the
inconvenience and limited stock and the other downsides that were the reason
videostores went away, but perhaps in some way the limited stock is a desirable
trait.
Anyway, all of this has me thinking it’s not a black and
white issue like it’s portrayed as. When I was in 8th grade, I would’ve
given anything to have access to media like I do now. And this isn’t even a
matter of we’ve been spoiled for so long we don’t appreciate what we have; I,
at least, always appreciate the convenience of the Internet and nearly-limitless
access to information and entertainment. So this whole topic doesn’t to me boil
down to “limited media access” vs. “unlimited media access” and which one is
better. As with anything, the truth is more complicated and nuanced. Yet ultimately
this can be boiled down to self-control. If you can’t stop yourself from
endlessly scrolling TikTok all day and checking Reddit every 20 minutes, no
amount of self-imposed challenges will permanently alter your behavior. As soon
as the week or month or whatever length of time the challenge lasts, I would
bet dollars to donuts that most of those people eventually slide back into their
old habits. YOU must control your consumption. YOU must learn the balance of
mindless content vs. meaningful content you need in your life. YOU must learn
to put your phone down and sit down to concentrate on an album or book wholly.
But that’s not as simple and sexy as a clickbait title that screams “I lived
like someone in the 80s for a week!”
So let’s do a little thought experiment. If you go to your
local used media store and buy a DVD boxset of, say, The Office, and this is in
your selection of physical media you’re “allowed” to watch during your self-imposed
challenge. So on the first day of it, you begin watching season one of The
Office on DVD. Outside of the interface and having to physically change the
discs as the seasons go on, there is no fundamental difference between the two ways
of watching. You could just as easily have used your self-control to say, “I’m
going to put my phone down and watch the first 6 episodes of The Office on
streaming.”
Ultimately you can use whatever methods or systems proposed
by YouTubers and others to enjoy as much media as possible and not waste your
life on social media and mindless content churn websites. But you still have to
have the self-control to stick with these methods or systems, and this
ultimately is what makes them a novelty rather than a paradigm shift: you are
ultimately responsible for yourself. It’s always within your power to decrease
your social media time and increase time spent reading or watching new TV shows
or whatever.
I do think the one valuable thing people are taking from
this whole topic is getting back into physical media and as a result having real
ownership of media again. While I still maintain there’s a balance to find between
being all physical media and all streaming, I can’t deny that with the former
the movie studio can’t come into your house and steal your bluray copy of The
Princess Bride.
My own system for say music is that I curate a collection of
vinyl records of my absolutely favorites and rare releases you can’t always
find on streaming, but I also use streaming all the time because of the ease of
use and the amount of music you get for that monthly fee. Similarly with
movies, I only buy a physical copy of something if I especially love it OR if
it’s an obscure movie that might go out of print—it’s been re-released
recently, but for a long time you couldn’t watch Dogma on any streaming
services and had to track down a DVD copy, for instance.
Now as for backlogs…I think this is also about self-control,
but additionally about having honest conversations with yourself. We all know
that sometimes we purchase things because we’d like to think of ourselves as
the kind of person who casually decides to read One Hundred Years Of Solitude
but realistically most of us will stop at the purchase/acquisition. This is why
so many people have dozens of games in their Steam library they haven’t
touched. You WANT to be the kind of person who plays in-depth strategy games or
esoteric RPGs with dense mechanics, so you buy those games, yet you never end
up playing them. You can use whatever systems or self-imposed challenges you
want, ultimately you have to make yourself accountable and actually play them.
I have this thing where, when I’m between videogames, I play an hour or two of
a few different games I’ve bought but haven’t played. This gets me to rapidly
reassign games in my own ranking: Games I’ll Never Want To Play, Games I Might
Want To Play Someday, and Games I Want To Keep Playing After This Is Over.
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